No matter how good you are in bed and could make her cum multiple times; you are no different from a “Service Repairer”. You are more like “for the moment guy” except she has given you her Heart. You are the dope she takes when she Needs to be high, lol!
No matter how nice you are to her and could buy her anything you think she deserves or spend so much money on her to the extent of closing your account; charitable cause is not limited to the less privileged. You are more like “Donatus” except she gives you her Heart!
No matter how handsome you are and could dress to kill; it doesn’t make a difference from “Mannequins”. She might be moved to follow you but can’t keep you in her heart; you are only for display purposes except she Gives you her Heart.
A Woman’s heart can’t be taken by force; but, it is given! Given to the one who could unlock her Essence and make her feel like a “Girl”. There is a Girl in every Woman; a girl who likes to play and be told stories of fantasy land. A girl who would want to be allowed to smile and laugh as she feels; dictates her pace and be in charge of her dolls.
A Girl who sees her dad as her hero and as such expect the man to act like one-she often will say:”there’s none like my dad!” Take it for real, there is none; but, one can exist through illusions to be exemplified by her partner.
A Girl who has always been a mother from birth; a mother who loves her own, who is in charge of her home and knows everything there is to know about “The Father”. A Girl Loves Life like Life; however, she is scared to walk on a dark alley all by herself even if sometimes she acts like a “Man” and pretends to be sick even when she is not-Attention Deficit Problem (ADP). Every Woman craves for Attention like drug Addicts craves for dope.
A Woman’s Heart can’t be taken by Force; she can tolerate you for as long as she is unable to find whom to give her heart to and stay with you to do everything a woman should do and still keep her heart in tact to herself-she is Mean when it comes to that; that’s her wiring in Life.
A Woman’s Heart is Strong, Stronger than Iron and Rock; but, like the Rock and Iron, if you use the wrong approach, it will be of no use to you-Iron and Rock melts when the right chemical is applied on them. So, it is with a Woman’s Heart. She gives it to whom is able to Identify and Nurture the girl in her.
Have you found the Girl in your Spouse? Until then, you are just married for convenience purposes.
Caveat: it is Difficult to find the Girl in a Woman who had a Troubled and or Confused Upbringing; you Need Extra Grace and Continuous Work in Progress to discover The Girl in Your Woman. Don’t Assume her; rather, Ask her with Wisdom and Never Underestimate her-see beyond The Façade of Make-ups and Dress-ups; note that, in her Laughter there is Tears and in her Tears there could be Pain or Joy.
I dey come, make I drink 🍹; no crucifixion abeg.
-The Wits Of Kevin Fyneface-
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